In the Moment
Love and Stuff
I, like many people have ideas and thoughts that pop into my head.
I have decided to write down (the ones that are publishable and legal), so I don’t forget them and they may be of assistance to you.
The term love is banded about a lot today and is usually reserved for very close relationships.
However, love of your fellow man is the love that I want to look at if you prefer replace Love with Care.
How do you know if someone Cares about you?
Understanding – the spend time and will always try and understand your point of view.
Today the rule seems to be, act first ask questions later, and never accept the explanation you are given. I am definitely guilty of jumping to some very wrong conclusions about people and their motives.
Acceptance – I don’t always agree with people but I do try to accept they have the right to their opinion. I am also allowed (and I do) decide that I won’t accept the way they see the world and that their I don’t care about them. This only becomes a problem when I have an ongoing relationship with them.
Involvement – If I am not actively involved with them I cannot care about them. Interaction and involvement is the sign that I care.
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