I have decided to write down (the ones that are publishable and legal), so I don’t forget them and they may be of assistance to you.
Able has three children, and they each have different behaviours that impact on how we behave. Over recent months I have started to understand the impact these have on my responses, feelings, beliefs and thoughts.
Unable – persuades me that is isn’t worth trying to do something because I will not succeed. Attempts to make me feel powerless and worthless. Drives my inaction and my justification for not addressing a problem. Unable needs perseverance and determination to make silent.
Disable – lets me focus on the disadvantages I have to deal with and allows me the excuse of not achieving what I could or not try as much as I should.
Enable – shows me the options and opportunities to achieve what I want. Enable looks for the positive and innovative; it asks questions and challenges me to be more than I am.
Which of Able’s children will I use next?
Which of Able’s children do I use on other people?
How often do I allow others to use Ables children on me?
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