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In the Moment

How Able’s three children impact on me

I, like many people have ideas and thoughts that pop into my head.

I have decided to write down (the ones that are publishable and legal), so I don’t forget them and they may be of assistance to you.

Able has three children, and they each have different behaviours that impact on how we behave. Over recent months I have started to understand the impact these have on my responses, feelings, beliefs and thoughts.

Unable – persuades me that is isn’t worth trying to do something because I will not succeed. Attempts to make me feel powerless and worthless. Drives my inaction and my justification for not addressing a problem. Unable needs perseverance and determination to make silent.

Disable – lets me focus on the disadvantages I have to deal with and allows me the excuse of not achieving what I could or not try as much as I should.

Enable – shows me the options and opportunities to achieve what I want. Enable looks for the positive and innovative; it asks questions and challenges me to be more than I am.

Which of Able’s children will I use next?

Which of Able’s children do I use on other people?

How often do I allow others to use Ables children on me?

You can read further articles in the series by following this link - In the Moment