I, like many people have ideas and thoughts that pop into my head.
I have decided to write down (the ones that are publishable and legal), so I don’t forget them and they may be of assistance to you.
Able has three children, and they each have different behaviours that impact on how others behave. Over recent months I have started to understand my impact on others through my responses, feelings, beliefs and thoughts.
Unable – persuades me it is pointless people trying to do it, as they will be utterly unable to deliver on any promises made to the level or standard I want. It allows me to discount even considering others for things because “They will be unable to do it.”
Disable – lets me focus on the difference between other and what I perceive to be healthy, lowering my expectations and support or increasing support to such a level that the person doing the task gets nothing from it as they have followed step by step instructions.
Enable – shows me the options and opportunities to achieve through others.
Enable – looks for the positive and innovative; it asks questions and challenges me to be more than I am.
Which of Able’s children will I use next?
Which of Able’s children do I use on other people?
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